Saying NO is never wrong

Saying NO is never wrong

The world has two types of people, and they have different impacts on their lives and the lifestyle they live in, and they just because of two words: “YES” and “NO”. One person is always ready to do all the work that you ask, no matter if that happens or not and then it happens that they suffer. They have to face the consequences, but when another person is never ready to do what you want them to do also, somehow they face the products, but their motive is always to be protected. But let me tell you that saying NO is never a harm. You don’t get to do what others say, but it has some limitations.

Sometimes, in a situation, a person has to think between saying NO & YES constantly, depending only on the situation. NO is never a wrong option when you feel that you are right, but in some way, saying NO can be harmful. But what makes you say NO? Of course, that depends on the situation, like you want to choose your career and save yourself. What are these black spots? Have surgery, always say NO at this moment. And the case where you say NO is that you study hard or will fail (never say NO); lose your weight (Never say NO).

Also, sometimes when a company or any organisation say NO to you, there is never a stop; always keep in mind if you are always going to say YES to that thing which shouldn’t be done, like if your friend is telling you to steal money from your parents, that’s the time when never say YES. Still, when it comes to taking responsibility at that time, you must say YES. Saying NO for the wrong purpose or saying you are always helpful.

 

Saying NO also sometimes justifies your respect. For example, Your ex leaves when they feel like going to you. Now, when his/him needs aren't fulfilled, they are coming back, but that's on you if you want to say yes or no to that ex; if you say yes and if you feel that they are genuinely sorry for what he did, then he must be given a chance once but when you started feeling them taking you as granted say NO directly without thinking anything. That doesn’t even make sense if you are giving everything to them, and they again make you fool, and what you can do is sit, cry and do nothing. Show your power, and your two-letter word NO is everything and enough for them to say so.

When you are at your job interview and told that you cannot go with the other process anymore, that also doesn't mean you cannot do anything in your life. Life has all chances and gives you a lot of opportunities. Only you are the one who is going to understand this. Or else you will always be upset, and then you cannot get any output from what you have done to your life. Later, you are the one who is responsible for this damage for your whole life.

 Even in a movie, our actors always clearly say NO is meant by NO only, and it doesn't mean any statement, and you can relate to that movie. If a person is proposing to you, you decide to accept it or rejecting if that affects him, that's his problem, not yours, and if he does anything wrong against you, then that's also nothing to talk about anything anymore; just one FIR and you are done the no other process is needed. But always you should know what to do in this situation, and you know it.

If you have faced anything due to saying NO, then it is none of your concern that you say NO; if you do so, no society will do anything of it unless talking about you. Let them talk. People are always there criticising. Only some of them must be acceptable. If that’s correct and they are wrong, then they aren’t going to pay the bill for you.

Now, people are also concerned about wars that are going on. And all we needed was NO WAR. It doesn’t do good. It permanently destroys people‘s world, and that's what we think. Even Mahabharata & other wars like that have killed many people’s lives. Only we know they aren't there anymore, or the way they are born is very heartbreaking. Everyone will accept me about HIROSHIMA NAGASAKI, and we can still se the result of that war. That’s why saying NO to war is always an excellent way to keep the peace and let people live their lives happily.

Your journey has a lot of ups and downs, and that has nothing to do with your life. In this life, start learning to say No that two letters have nothing to say more nor any explanation is needed. Start NOW and be stress-free in your life and stay happy and live A healthy life. That’s all that is enough for us.

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