Parenting in Real Time: Opting for Moments – Not Messages

Parenting in Real Time: Opting for Moments – Not Messages

I have been writing and speaking to the media a great deal about smartphones, the importance of a play based childhood, digital literacy, digital detoxing and finding the balance in embracing technology, understanding technology and balancing time away from it.

So I thought I'd bring together a host of my articles in one place in case you'd like to read them, share them, and ponder them!

There's a great deal of buzz, and a sense of a revolution, taking place around changing the dial on a #SmartphoneFreeChildhood that I completely embrace - from the grassroots campaign by friends Clare Fernyhough and Daisy Greenwell who started the Smartphone Free Childhood group in February to the thought provoking and compelling book by Jonathan Haidt The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness

But as I walk my dogs across the muddy fields here in Surrey I've been pondering about the influence and importance of parents as role models in this debate, also about the early years and how that sets up habits that are potentially unhealthy for children and also about the crucial aspect of digital literacy for both kids AND parents!

The Vital Importance of Digital Literacy for Children


So, I'll start with The Vital Importance of Teaching Digital Literacy to Children and Young People

In today’s digitally-driven world, the ability to navigate, understand, and utilise technology is not just a valuable skill – it’s an essential one. As technology continues to advance at a rapid pace, teaching children and young people digital literacy is paramount for their success and well-being in the modern age.

Digital literacy encompasses a range of skills, including the ability to use digital tools effectively, critically evaluate online information, protect personal data and privacy, communicate responsibly in digital spaces, and understand the ethical implications of technology use.

These skills are not only necessary for academic and professional success but also for participating in society as informed and responsible citizens.

One of the primary reasons why teaching digital literacy is crucial is the pervasiveness of technology in everyday life.

Children and young people are growing up in a world where smartphones, social media, and the internet are integral parts of their existence. Without proper guidance and education, they may struggle to navigate this digital landscape safely and effectively.

Digital literacy is closely tied to educational attainment and future career prospects.

In today’s job market, many professions require at least a basic understanding of digital tools and technologies.

By equipping young learners with digital literacy skills from an early age, educators can help prepare them for success in the workforce of tomorrow.

Additionally, teaching digital literacy promotes critical thinking and problem-solving abilities. In an era of abundant information and widespread misinformation, the ability to evaluate online content critically is more important than ever.

By teaching children and young people how to discern credible sources from unreliable ones, educators empower them to make informed decisions and resist manipulation and deception.

Digital literacy is essential for promoting online safety and protecting against cyber threats.

Children and young people are particularly vulnerable to online dangers, such as cyberbullying, identity theft, and exposure to inappropriate content.

Teaching them how to safeguard their personal information, engage responsibly in digital communication, and recognize and respond to online risks is crucial for their safety and well-being.

Fostering digital literacy can help bridge the digital divide and promote inclusivity.

In many communities, disparities in access to technology and digital resources persist, disproportionately affecting marginalised groups.

By providing equal access to digital literacy education, educators can help level the playing field and ensure that all children and young people have the skills they need to thrive in the digital age.

Teaching children and young people digital literacy is paramount in today’s interconnected world.

By equipping them with the necessary skills and knowledge, educators can empower them to navigate the digital landscape safely, critically evaluate online information, and participate responsibly in the digital society. Investing in digital literacy education is not just an investment in the future of individuals but also in the future of society as a whole.

The Importance of Empowering Parents with Digital Literacy Skills


Then I'd like to come on to Ctrl-Alt-Parent: The Importance of Empowering Parents with Digital Literacy Confidence.

“In a digital world where the landscape is ever-changing, parental digital literacy isn’t just a choice; it’s a responsibility to equip ourselves with the knowledge and skills needed to guide our children safely through uncharted waters.” ~ Sue Atkins

In today’s digital age, where technology permeates almost every aspect of our lives, digital literacy has become an essential skill set for people of all ages. While much attention is rightly focused on teaching children and young adults about digital literacy, it’s equally crucial to recognise the significance of educating parents too.

Parents, as primary caregivers and role models, play a pivotal role in shaping their children’s attitudes and behaviours towards technology. Hence, equipping them with digital literacy skills not only benefits their own lives but also has a profound impact on the next generation.

Digital literacy encompasses a range of skills that enable individuals to navigate, evaluate, and effectively use digital technologies. These skills include basic computer proficiency, critical thinking, information literacy, online safety, and privacy awareness, among others.

In today’s interconnected world, where misinformation and cyber threats abound, possessing these skills is essential for safeguarding yourself and your kids in the digital space.

One of the primary reasons why digital literacy education is crucial for parents is the need to bridge the generation gap. Many parents didn’t grow up with the internet or smartphones, making it challenging for them to understand the technology their children are using. By enhancing their digital literacy, parents can communicate better with their kids about online activities, identify potential risks, and provide guidance on responsible digital behaviour.

Digital literacy empowers parents to actively engage in their children’s online lives. Rather than adopting a hands-off approach or resorting to restrictive measures, educated parents can promote healthy digital habits by fostering open communication, setting boundaries, and serving as positive role models.

This proactive involvement not only strengthens parent-child relationships but also cultivates a supportive environment where children feel comfortable seeking guidance and assistance regarding online challenges they may encounter.

Digital literacy education equips parents with the skills needed to protect their families from online threats. From cyberbullying and identity theft to phishing scams and malware, the internet poses various risks that can impact individuals of all ages. By learning how to recognise and mitigate these threats, parents can create a safer online environment for themselves and their children. They can also teach their children about the importance of privacy, responsible social media usage, and critical evaluation of online content.

In addition to enhancing parental oversight, digital literacy education can also benefit parents in their personal and professional lives. In an increasingly digitalised workforce, proficiency in technology has become a prerequisite for many jobs. By acquiring digital literacy skills, parents can enhance their employability, access online resources for personal development, and stay connected with friends and family in the digital realm.

To effectively teach parents about digital literacy, educational initiatives should be tailored to their needs and preferences. Workshops, webinars, and online courses can provide practical guidance on topics such as internet safety, social media management, and digital parenting strategies. Additionally, resources such as informational guides, interactive tutorials, and online forums can empower parents to continue learning and stay updated on emerging digital trends and challenges.

Digital literacy education for parents is not just beneficial; it’s essential in today’s digital age. By equipping parents with the necessary skills and knowledge, we empower them to fulfill their roles as mentors, guardians, and advocates for their children in the digital world. Ultimately, investing in parental digital literacy is an investment in the well-being and resilience of families in an increasingly interconnected society.

Sue speaks to Nick Ferrari on LBC

Tune in to Sue’s exclusive interview with Nick Ferrari on LBC Radio as Sue dives into the discussion about delaying access to smartphones until the age of 14.

The Balancing Act of Parenting, Smartphones and Early Years

The Balancing Act: Parenting, Smartphones, and the Crucial Need for Connection in The Early Years

In this article I ponder: the important role parents play from how they interact with their phones during breastfeeding or bottle feeding, and nappy changing, right up to those crucial ages of 9-15 and beyond.

The huge importance of the early years in parenting and the use of smartphones – because to me everything is related, connected and part of the jigsaw.

In the ever-evolving digital age, smartphones have become ubiquitous, seamlessly integrated into various aspects of our daily lives. While these devices offer unparalleled convenience and connectivity, they also present a significant challenge for parents navigating the delicate balance between technology and genuine human connection, particularly in the crucial early years of a child’s development.

Parenting in the digital era comes with its own set of complexities, and the pervasive presence of smartphones can inadvertently hinder meaningful interactions between parents and their young children. As adults become increasingly reliant on their devices for work, communication, and entertainment, it’s all too easy for screens to encroach upon precious moments of bonding and engagement with their little ones.

I see too many children running out of nursery, childcare or school eagerly waiting to be greeted by their parents, who are distracted on their mobile phone and not paying attention to their child’s excited and enthusiastic faces and smiles. It saddens me as it’s not probably a deliberate act of snubbing their child but just not an aware parent consciously thinking about what they are doing – sleep walking at the school gates I call it!

Breastfeeding in the Age of Distraction

Breastfeeding in the Age of Distraction: The Mobile Phone Dilemma

Bottle Feeding and Bonding

Beyond the Bottle: How Mobile Phones Shape Baby Bonding & Wellbeing. Some Food for Thought!

Nappies and Notifications

Nappies and Notifications: Why Parents Should Put Down Their Smartphones

Parenting in Real Time

Parenting in Real Time: Opting for Moments – Not Messages

The wonderful world of smartphones and the dangers....

I Love My Smartphone – Don’t You? BUT......

The horse has bolted - now what?

The Horse Has Bolted: My Child Has a Smartphone! Now What?

Let’s Make Getting a Smartphone a ‘Milestone Moment’

Parental Controls

Parental Controls Keep Your Kids Safe Online – Here’s Why They’re Important

Why parents don't use parental controls

Ctrl+Alt+Delay: Why Parents Don’t Use Parental Controls

Digital Pacifiers’: A Modern Comfort or A Huge Concern?

‘Digital Pacifiers’: A Modern Comfort or A Huge Concern?

Before Giving Your Kids A Smartphone Ask Yourself These Questions

Giving a child a smartphone without guidance is like giving them the keys to a 4×4 without teaching them how to drive – it can lead to terrible accidents and enormous dangers on their digital journey‼️

97% of 12 year olds now have access to a smartphone and 45% are online ”almost constantly”

So the task for parents is to move from a mindset of ”protect” to one of ”prepare”

The Anxious Generation. HOW THE GREAT REWIRING OF CHILDHOOD IS CAUSING AN EPIDEMIC OF MENTAL ILLNESS

The Anxious Generation. HOW THE GREAT REWIRING OF CHILDHOOD IS CAUSING AN EPIDEMIC OF MENTAL ILLNESS

Building Confidence in Saying ‘No’ to Smartphones until Aged 14 – Tips & Scripts for Parents by Sue Atkins

Building Confidence in Saying ‘No’ to Smartphones until Aged 14 – Tips & Scripts for Parents

Turn Off - Tune In - Unplug

Tune Off- Tune In - Unplug

The Importance of Play

The Importance Of Play

World Digital Detox Day 10th December

World Digital Detox Day

I have recently been invited to be the spokesperson for World Digital Detox Day - that is a movement that reached 7.5 million people last year and reached 65 countries worldwide on December 10th.

If you decided to run a Marathon you wouldn’t just put on your trainers & run 26 miles would you?

You’d train. You’d plan. You’d build up slowly.

The same applies to incrementally turning off your mobile phone or stepping back from your devices.

If we stop to think about what we look at most during the day, the answer would probably not be our family or friends, television or books.

It’s our phone.

The use of mobile phones has been growing exponentially in recent years, especially after the emergence of smart devices.

Smartphones are now our constant companions for work, social, leisure and even family life.

But excessive use can lead to problems of dependence, addiction and fear.

I'm collaborating with World Digital Detox Day to get parents, families and everyone just 'pausing to ponder' and looking up instead of down in the real world!

Join us!


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That's it - but there's a whole host of articles, videos, podcasts and resources on my website to empower, inspire and help you navigate the very important job of being a parent

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Sue

Sue Atkins

BBC, ITV & Disney's Parenting Expert, Award Winning Author of The Divorce Journal for Kids, Broadcaster & Freelance Writer & Host of Navigating the Digital Jungle with Sue Atkins and Friends podcast 🎧🗺️ 🧭 🔦📱

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