Do you feel like your man has become distant?

Are you worried that he’s not calling or texting as much, or that he doesn’t make plans to see you like he did before?

Do you want him to think about you and miss you more?

In order to make a man miss you, you first need to understand how men think and what they value. Men are simple creatures who enjoy the uncomplicated things in life.

They are drawn to women who can make them laugh, who have a positive outlook on life, and who are drama-free. If you want a man to miss you, then you need to be the opposite of all of those things.

You need to be complicated and high-maintenance. While this may seem like it would push a man away, it actually has the opposite effect.

Men love a good challenge, and when they see that they cannot easily win your affections, they will become even more intrigued by you.

 This one is difficult to do, but absolutely essential. Let me explain. See, when you notice that your man isn’t calling or texting or making plans as much as he used to, it’s natural to become worried and concerned about why he’s changed.

So you pay extra attention to what he’s doing and eventually you bring it up to him. So you talk to him and you tell him that you’ve noticed a change in him and you ask him what’s wrong?

Maybe he tells you everything is okay. He’s just very busy, or he tells you that you’re too sensitive.

Stop worrying about it. Or maybe he denies it. But if you’re like most people, you can’t just forget about it. Instead, you start paying extra attention to everything he does, looking for more confirmation of the way you’re feeling.

And without a doubt, you find example after example of how things have changed and it makes you feel worse and even more insecure.

And despite all of the conversations, nothing changes. Actually, maybe they get worse. And then you continue to complain. It has the opposite effect.

Things just get more difficult between you two. It’s like he sees you as the one who’s always complaining and nagging.

So step one is that you must not bring this topic up again, at least not yet.

I know it’s not easy to do, but if you continue to bring it up, you will sabotage your chances of turning things around.

Instead, after you do these steps, he’s going to be the one missing you and he will bring it up.

So despite how you’re feeling, you must not let him know that you’re upset or sad, or worried.

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Thank you ….if you’re in this situation, I would imagine that you’ve been the one reaching out to start conversations by texting or calling him, but you have to stop being the one who is always reaching out first.

Obviously, this isn’t easy to do because you want to be connected and communicate, but if you want a man to really miss you, you must pull away.

So do not initiate calls or texts with him. Notice I didn’t say ignore him or stop communicating. I’m saying stop being the one that’s always looking for him and start communication.

You’re not the one who’s going to be starting the day with a good morning call or text instead. Let him do it. Eventually, he will recognize the difference and wonder why you’ve suddenly gone silent on him.

Let him feel a little down and realize that he was happier when things were different. Your silence will speak volumes and he will usually initiate contact again pretty quickly.

Oh, and make him wait before you return his calls and texts. I understand the urge to respond back immediately, especially if you’ve been waiting to hear from him for a while.

That means you don’t have to share every detail of your daily activities with him. I’m not encouraging you to keep secrets or lie about anything. Just don’t explain every little thing that you’re doing unless he asks.

You want him to wonder and to develop intrigue. So share bits and pieces of your life slowly and make him earn your trust again.

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When you’re going out to dinner with your parents, tell him you’re going out to dinner. You don’t have to tell him who you’re going out with unless he asks.

And when you have plans with friends and he asks you on a date last minute, tell him you have plans with friends and don’t break your plans for his last-minute request.

Taking some time before responding to his contact sends the message that you are busy and not just sitting by your phone waiting for him to reach out, have patience and take your time before responding.

Doing so will certainly increase his yearning for you.

This will leave him wondering what you’re doing that’s more important than talking to him.

And this can make a deep passionate romantic relationship—something that men actually want deep down as well—difficult to achieve.

In my experience, the missing link in any relationship is never sex, communication, or missing each other when you’re apart. All these things are important, but they are rarely deal-breakers when it comes to the success of a relationship.

The missing link is that you actually have to understand what drives men romantically.

Your Comments……

When you’re worried that something is wrong or that he has changed, it has an impact on all of your interactions with him.

It impacts your conversations, your attitude, and your energy in general.

He will feel your disappointment and frustration, and the time that you’re together will feel much heavier and certainly not fun.

And this is the opposite of what you want him to feel. So you must figure out how to completely hide that disappointment and be the happy and confident person that he wants to be with.

All these tips are rooted in being the best version of yourself. They’re designed to help him recognize your value and to remember the person he fell in love with.

So you have to rock his world in a way that no one else can and leave him wanting more, leaving him craving more.

And the only person that can satisfy that craving and that need is you.

So you must create that dynamic, that feeling that he can’t get anywhere else. Every time he thinks of you, he’s going to be thinking about the fun things.

He’s going to associate you with everything. Fun not once, but every time. Light, fun, easygoing, and confident. Not disappointed, frustrated, or insecure about where things are going.

Don’t always be available for him by always saying yes when he calls and asks you out, especially if he’s calling with short notice.

Saying no to his request for plans sends him the message that you have other engagements or commitments that are taking priority, at least at this time when he’s asking.

It also forces him to recognize your independence and that you’re not just sitting by the phone waiting for his calls. Remember, one of the most important things that men find attractive in women is independence.

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