Mastering the Dynamics of Job Search and Rejection
by Michelle Letherby

Mastering the Dynamics of Job Search and Rejection

A Holistic Approach to Strategy and Self-Care

In the often daunting journey of job searching and dealing with rejection, it's crucial to adopt a holistic approach that nurtures both your professional strategies and personal well-being. This balanced perspective can make a significant difference in not only securing your next role but also in maintaining your mental and emotional health throughout the process.

Understanding the Job Search Landscape

Recent data from Teal sheds light on the typical job search journey. It takes an average of 7 applications to secure an interview and about 21 applications to receive a job offer, with a median duration of 44 days from application to offer. This data underscores the need for patience and resilience in the job search process.


Strategies for a Proactive Job Search

Strategies for a Proactive Job Search

Strategic Applications: Begin by identifying a broad range of potential jobs, narrowing down to those that align closely with your skills and interests. Customising your resume for each application improves your chances of standing out and using keywords are key!.

The Importance of Follow-Up: Establish initial contact with potential employers through a phone call before sending your application. This personal touch can set you apart. Post-application, follow up to confirm receipt and express continued interest. (you have to be willing to do what no one else is doing)

Continuous Learning: Stay competitive by continually upgrading your skills, especially those in high demand in your industry.

When the time comes: Preparation for Interviews: Given that it often takes multiple interviews to secure a job offer, thorough preparation is key. Familiarise yourself with the company and role, and practice your responses to be as impactful as possible.

The most common advice on handling job search rejection tends to be similar, focusing on seeing it as an opportunity.

While these points are valid, they may overlook the emotional toll it can take. Being told to view rejection positively can feel dismissive when you’re dealing with feelings of worry, stress, and despair. It's important to not only seek the silver lining but also manage the emotional challenges that come with rejection.

Handling rejection in a career transition is as much about managing your emotional and physical well-being as it is about practical job search strategies. Recognising and addressing the emotional weight of this experience is crucial for maintaining a healthy mindset and focus which in turn will help you deal better with rejection and continue to move forward.


Managing Emotional Well-being

Managing Emotional Well-being

Establish a Daily Routine: Create a structured plan for your day. This not only brings a sense of order but also prevents the job search from becoming overwhelming. Write down a to-do list the night before (get it all out of your head and on to paper), set a consistent sleep schedule, and allocate specific times for job-related activities.

Physical Movement and Social Interaction: Regular exercise, like going to the gym or taking walks, is essential for mental clarity and emotional regulation. It's also an opportunity to be around people, which can lift your spirits. Incorporating activities that get you out of the house and into different environments can break the monotony and refresh your perspective.

Mindful Eating: Plan your meals to ensure they are healthy and energy-boosting. Proper nutrition is key to maintaining the energy levels needed for a productive job search and for coping with emotional stress as well as maintain consistent.

Mindfulness Practices: Engage in mindfulness activities such as meditation, yoga, if that is too woo-woo for you, simply sitting in silence gives you mind time to stop and breathe. These practices help in calming the mind, reducing stress, and maintaining emotional balance.

Reading for Relaxation and Growth: Dedicate time to read, whether it's for personal development or leisure. Reading can be a source of relaxation, inspiration, and can indirectly support your job search by keeping you motivated and mentally sharp.

Reflection and Adaptation: Use journaling not just for planning but also for reflecting on your emotions and experiences. Getting to-do lists and concerns off your mind and onto paper, jotting down feelings and ideas. This can be a powerful way to process feelings of rejection and to adapt your approach to the challenges you face.

By integrating these practices into your daily life, you create a balanced approach that supports both your emotional health and your practical efforts in a career transition. This holistic approach ensures that you are taking care of your mental and emotional well-being while staying focused and proactive in your job search.


The job search process is a marathon, requiring a balanced approach that supports your professional and personal needs. By integrating strategic job search practices with self-care routines, you're not only enhancing your chances in the job market but also taking care of your overall well-being, ensuring that you remain energised, focused, and ready to seize the right opportunity when it comes.

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