Head in the Sand or Facing Reality? Avoiding the "Ostrich Standing" Trap

Head in the Sand or Facing Reality? Avoiding the "Ostrich Standing" Trap

The Power of 2 Minutes - Daily Motivation #270 (12th March 2024)

We've all heard the saying "burying your head in the sand like an ostrich." It refers to avoiding or ignoring problems, pretending everything is fine when it's clearly not. This behavior, often called "Ostrich Standing," can be incredibly detrimental in our personal and professional lives.

The High Cost of "Ostrich Standing"

I've recently encountered many professionals who lost their jobs due to restructuring. One individual, a C-level executive, knew about potential job cuts for a year but took no action. He assumed a lucrative European opportunity awaited him, which fell through. Now, facing financial difficulties, he's starting over with a significant pay cut.

We often hear advice about saving and investing young. How many of us truly take that advice seriously? I readily admit I was an "Ostrich" in my younger years, focused on spending and neglecting saving. By 35, I had no savings and no house, while my peers were settling down. Ignoring reality had consequences.

The Benefits of "Saras Crane Standing"

The Saras Crane, known for its stillness and focus, represents the opposite of the Ostrich. Here's how adopting a "Saras Crane" approach benefits you:

  • Proactive Problem Solving: Facing challenges head-on allows you to develop solutions and prevent future issues.
  • Reduced Stress: Ignoring problems creates anxiety and stress. Addressing them directly brings peace of mind.
  • Increased Confidence: Taking responsibility and overcoming challenges builds self-belief and resilience.
  • Improved Opportunities: Proactive individuals are seen as reliable and capable, leading to better career prospects.

,Developing Your "Saras Crane" Skills:

Here are some ways to cultivate a "Saras Crane" mindset:

  1. Embrace Self-Awareness: Reflect on your tendencies. Do you avoid difficult conversations or procrastinate on important tasks?
  2. Challenge Negative Thinking: Don't downplay problems or minimize their impact.
  3. Develop a Growth Mindset: View challenges as opportunities to learn and improve.
  4. Practice Active Listening: Seek to understand situations fully before reacting.
  5. Develop Communication Skills: Express your concerns clearly and confidently.

Learning Resources:

  1. "Developing Self-Awareness" by LinkedIn Learning
  2. "The Gottman Institute " - Explores communication and building healthy
  3. "The Mindset Mentor" by Dr. Carol Dweck - Explores the power of a growth mindset

_Note: This daily newsletter reflects my personal views, with the sole intention of helping each other grow and focus, not to insult or demean anyone. I'm always happy to discuss and hear your perspectives!


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