10 Situations That Call For A Coach.
PAUL SIMOS
Holistic Executive Performance Coach | Empowering Business Executives to Thrive with Clarity, Impact, and Emotional Intelligence at Big Vision Life Coach
"Coaching is unlocking a person’s potential to maximize their own performance. It is helping them to learn rather than teaching them." - Timothy Gallwey.
When I randomly ask people during the conversation what situations call for a coach, they appear to be scrambling for an answer.
Many people are familiar with sports coaches. We only have to look at some of the great sports coaches.
Here are a few:
Even in the personal development arena, we have the following:
Coaching (learning) is becoming a powerful resource for people who want greater results in their professional and personal lives. Especially these days when our professional and personal landscapes are constantly changing.
Let's examine the hype surrounding coaching. Here are 10 situations that call for a coach.
When you read through the 10 situations that call for a coach, choose 1 that, if you worked on that one area of your life, would create the biggest BREAKTHROUGH for you!
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10 Situations That Call For A Coach
1. When You Feel Stuck or Uncertain About Your Goals.
This is the perfect time when you feel stuck at a crossroads. What are you not seeing, or what don't you want to look at and acknowledge? Is this the right goal, or should I be working on something else?
A coach can help you find clarity and direction, immediately discovering new ways to remove roadblocks and get unstuck.
Now, your energy can be re-directed towards achieving your goal, which is the most productive use of your energy.
2. When You're Facing a Major Life Transition.
Life transitions are unavoidable, and we must embrace them for a speedy and successful transition. A coach can support, guide, and speed up the process during this turbulent time.
Here are a few life transitions you can reflect upon.
A. Career Change: Transitioning to a new job, industry, or career path.
B. Entrepreneurship: Starting or scaling a business venture, including navigating challenges and uncertainties.
C. Relationship Transitions: Navigating changes in personal relationships, such as marriage, divorce, or becoming a parent.
D. Health and Wellness: Managing health-related transitions such as recovering from illness or injury, adopting healthier habits, or dealing with chronic conditions.
3. When You're Seeking Clarity and Direction in Your Career.
Are you seeking clarity about your next move in your career? You can achieve clarity through powerful conversations with an experienced coach.
Business is moving rapidly, and considering all the technological advances now and in the future, you should consider this as part of your career direction conversation.
Also, you can consider your current skills, capabilities, traits, vision, and mission.
Everything inside of you needs to point in one clear direction to be the master in your field.
The sun's rays are warm on our skin but powerful when felt through a magnifying glass.
This is how we want you to have a magnifying effect on your career.
4. When You're Experiencing Challenges in Relationships or Communication.
This is a BIG one.
Communication is a foundational pillar of our professional and personal lives. We must constantly upgrade our communication skills.
A coach can bring awareness to your unseen communication habits and behaviors. Then, very quickly, introduce and teach you how to raise your communication performance, creating harmonious relationships.
He can teach you about the visible and invisible communications we transmit and receive daily. This one is a huge eye-opener for leadership communication.
Mastering the art of leadership communication will catalyze a profound positive transformation across every facet of your life.
5. When You Want to Enhance Your Effectiveness or Productivity.
We all want to enhance our effectiveness and productivity, don't we?
Most certainly, we do!
A coach can work with you and quickly apply the 80/20 principle and other tools to help you buy back some of your time. We want 20% of our actions to give us 80% of our results.
Many people have created situations where 80% of their actions only deliver 20% results. This is very inefficient and unproductive.
Let's help you refocus, get clear on the 20% of actions that will give you 80% of results, take all the right actions, drop the remainder, and buy back your time. You will have more time for family, health, and recreation while achieving greater results.
This is a game-changer!
6. When You're Feeling Overwhelmed and Need Support in Managing Stress.
We have periods in our lives when it just gets all too much! We have so many tasks, meetings, crisis moments, and relationship interventions to attend to every week.
No matter how strong we are, stress can become cumulative and build up if we don't attend to it.
Recently, a client called for support because he was having a serious crisis in his business. Initially, It looked like he would lose the majority of his clients. I first had to get him out of his fight/flight state of mind.
We needed to change his state of being quickly!
In this fight-or-flight state, we don't have access to all our knowledge, resources, skills, and capabilities. This is not a good state to be in as a business professional.
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Once we released his upset and overwhelmed emotions, we brainstormed by asking him powerful questions about his business. Within that one conversational phone call, he was back functioning, ready to take focused, strategic action. It was a powerful redirection of his focus, energy and results.
A coach can be your best friend and ally in times like this.
This apparent adversity was good for his business only because he could respond quickly, logically, and strategically.
His business transitioned in a very positive way.
7. When You're Ready to Change But Unsure Where to Start.
Deciding to implement changes in our lives is a difficult task. Our human nature likes familiarity. Even though our present situation is painful, we remain there because it's familiar, not because we like it.
Now that you're ready to change, which is a big achievement—congratulations! Where do you start?
A coach can guide you through this delicate transition to the other side of change. Many people start the process but never complete it. They find the familiarity of pain more comfortable than the discomfort of changing.
"People are great starters; coaches help them to be awesome finishes".
Coaches know how to navigate change and skillfully guide their clients through it. A coach will ensure you start correctly to achieve your goal and support you to the very end. Celebrate!
8. When You Want to Unlock Your Full Potential and Achieve Greater Success.
We all have an abundance of potential. We have already proven by the wonderful things we have created and achieved in the past. Many of us realise that there is a lot more potential within us that needs to be expressed.
In the beginning, coaches believe more in their clients than their clients believe in themselves. This supportive belief starts to unlock that dormant potential.
Once they get a few wins in the coaching environment, their belief and potential come into play. As the momentum builds, the floodgates of potential bust wide open.
It's like a baby walking for the first time; it needs a supportive environment and a strong belief from the mom, which the baby doesn't have yet, to release the walking potential. That's why everyone walks.
9. When Seeking to Improve Your Leadership Skills or Advance in Your Career.
"What got you here will not get you there".
We must improve our skills and capabilities to advance our leadership and careers. When we do, we attract more opportunities.
A coach will skillfully guide you through the process depending on the direction of your career advancement. Different career pathways require different new skills and capabilities.
Brainstorming with a coach and examining your existing skills and capabilities can help you develop a career advancement plan for the next 3-5 years and beyond.
Once the plan is in place, it's just a matter of taking action, having guidance and support, and checking off the milestones toward achieving your career goal.
A coach will teach you the leadership skills and capabilities necessary to excel in your career. I train promoted staff members and prepare them for new leadership management positions.
We must skill them up when we promote our staff to ensure their success. This is imperative. We must give our staff everything they need to be successful in their new role.
10. When You Want to Enhance Your Overall Well-being and Life Satisfaction.
You may already be set up in a great career or job. You have material possessions and an abundance of money, which you deserve, but something is missing.
You dont have overall well-being and life satisfaction. You may have dropped the ball on your health and now need to refocus and reclaim it.
Or you just haven't learned to enjoy the present moment and all you've acquired over a lifetime. You've worked so hard and lost the psychological muscle of enjoyment. (we can help you rebuild that muscle).
Having a great career and money is wonderful, but they are of little value if you can't enjoy them.
I have worked with many people who have a great life from a material perspective, but they want more. In some cases, more is not the solution; enjoying what they already have is.
If you can't enjoy what you already have, having more doesn't scratch the itch of enjoyment. We need a different strategy.
A coach will identify his clients' real wants, not necessarily what they say. He will look deeper and discover the root cause of their state of being, which is crucial to solving the real problem.
In Conclusion
As we have seen, a coach can help you in many different and exciting ways. A coach's job is to be your partner and support you in achieving your most treasured dreams and goals.
These are just 10 situations that call for a coach. I'm sure you can think of many more.
Over the years, I've engaged many different coaches, depending on what support I required at that time or stage of life.
If you have a dream or goal you want to achieve or a situation where you are stuck and unsure where to start, a powerful conversation with a coach could be the best place to start.
I offer complimentary, Powerful Coaching Conversations for those who want to discover if a coaching relationship will work for them.
If you are serious about your life and future, and I know you are, seek out the best coach and work with one who will inspire you to be the best version of yourself.
Good luck.
I'm always here.
Paul Simos is an accomplished Executive Life Coach, Health Coach, and Certified Trainer. His fundamental belief about his clients frames how they work together: They already have everything they need to succeed. His role as a coach is stimulating and challenging his clients to unlock their successful beliefs, skills, and behaviour patterns. LinkedIn.
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