â¡ï¸ THE REASONS WHY EMPATHS AND HIGHLY SENSITIVE WOMEN STRUGGLE ON LINKEDIN 3/5 REASON 3: FEAR OF JUDGEMENT We may sometimes find ourselves hesitating to share our personal thoughts or creative content online. Why? It's that ever-present fear of judgement. The battle in our minds is endless. We ponder, "What if my ideas are misunderstood? What if I'm criticised or mocked?" These thoughts can be paralyzing, hindering us from sharing our authentic selves. But here's the truth: Our unique perspectives and creative expressions are treasures waiting to be shared with the world! Thereâs power in vulnerability (check out Brené Brownâs work about this). Vulnerability takes immense strength. When we open up, share our thoughts, and let our creativity flow, we create genuine connections with others who resonate with our experiences. On LinkedIn, we have an opportunity to build a supportive network of like-minded individuals who appreciate authenticity. Don't let the fear of judgement hold you back from connecting with those who truly value your voice. If you struggle to be present on LinkedIn, letâs talk. My VIP intensive works like a charm for introverted, empathic and sensitive entrepreneurs like you, who are looking for a personalised approach instead of a one-size-fits-all approach. You can find out more about it here: https://lnkd.in/en7Xr97T #HSP #EmotionalOverload #SelfCare #EmpatheticWomen
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