It has been a great week that has reinvigorated me! On Monday, I completed a major project I have been working on for the last 4 months. On Tuesday and Wednesday, I attended the LEAP TD: Construction conference in Nashville where I made some great connections with other T&D professionals and learned a lot from the presentations and discussions! On Thursday, I knocked a presentation out of the park to senior leadership on my implementation plan on a new training initiative. This was followed by my performance review where a lot of great conversation was had and I received a raise! My transition from the Navy to civilian life has been difficult at times. There have been days this year that I felt like I was just falling flat on my face. There have been times where I was ready to give up. I questioned many things about myself that I have never questioned before. Iâve had multiple people over the last 5 months tell me to give myself some grace when I told them how I was struggling and didnât feel like I was in the right place. Iâve had arguments with my wife because I couldnât see that she was just trying to support me the best way she knew how. To say it simply, itâs been a roller coaster ride. If you are transitioning or about to, know that transition is hard, but donât give up. We are taught in the military that you have to jump right in and have an impact, but now you will have to give yourself some grace. YOUR ENTIRE WORLD IS CHANGING. Itâs not simply from one role to another. It is one culture to a whole new one, and that takes a while to adjust to. There will be days you will feel like you have failed, but just keep moving forward. Eventually, you will have a week like I just had, and you will realize, itâs all been worth it! I had an HR Director say: Normally, a person is not expected to be fully transitioned into a role for 12-24 months ð¤¯ð¤¯ð¤¯ You got this ðª #transition #veteran #militaryretirement #militarytransition
Well done on your week of victory! And even more well done for sharing it with the community. We all have that doubtful voice inside when we transition to civilian life, and you nailed it. Just step up and do it, you can get past the obstacles if you arenât moving forward.
Dan, Great to hear and thank you for sharing this part of your experience. I just set my retirement date this week and I am already going through a full range of emotions. Your post is very insightful.
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1moGreat job Daniel. We are so proud of you.